Independence Day is a great time for me to reflect. Half of 2013 has come and gone and I feel confident that the second half of this year is going to be full of God's blessings.
I won't dwell too much on the past, but I am going to consider where my family has been and where we (God willing) are headed. Those close to us know that this past year or so could put even the best Six Flags rides to shame. Highs, lows, twists, turns, loops, spins...enough to make us and those around us dizzy.
Maintaining a healthy, happy marriage is a struggle. Period. Mix in two kids, wacky family dynamics, jobs, etc. and there's a recipe for all sorts of drama.
Reflections:
*God has to be my focus. Always. As long as He is my center, all things, good or bad will be fine.
*Ryan and I thought we were ready to be married. Turns out, we are two selfish individuals. One year and 5 months later, we realize our selfishness and resolve to turn that into selflessness. Marriage works best when husbands and wives put their personal wants and needs behind those of their spouse. Not easy. Necessary.
*Boundaries have to be defined, respected, enforced. Those who fail to honor the boundaries must accept the outcome. I struggle with this. Setting limits and boundaries, especially concerning loved ones can be tricky. I do not like hurting people's feelings...and that seems to be the result when I'm put in a situation to enforce a crossed over boundary.
*Parenting has no rule book. Ryan and I may not always agree on how to handle a parenting situation, but we must always back each other. Too much fun or discipline is harmful. The thing I find myself thinking about is the fact that one day, Karsyn and Rilyn will grow up, move out and have families of their own. When that day comes, I want Ryan and I to be in love, happy and content. I do not want to be like most empty nest couples who realize they don't even really know who they're married to anymore because the kids came first and not their marriage.
Looking forward....
God has been working hard in our family. Relationships have been renewed and restored. Selfishness is slowly turning into selflessness. We aren't perfect and we are okay with that. Thank you to all those who have prayed for us...prayers do work!
I feel as though we are truly happy. We are facing adversity as a team. We are finding new ways to spend time together as a couple and as a family. Praise God!
Ryan and I are excited to see where God leads us next.
Until next time, take care.
Kim
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